Organising Tag

The bride is the star of the wedding day; and so it should be. Nevertheless, the groom should not miss out on organising what will be one of the best days of his life –if not the best. I appreciate that some grooms are happy to let their future wife organise everything and simply be told where they are supposed to be and at what time on the day, but my advice is to be fully involved with the organisation and to divide the responsibilities. This will take some pressure off the bride and will give the groom a feeling that he is actually more important than the wedding cake. Take some time out with your wife-to-be to decide what each one of you is going to do (why not a romantic and productive week-end away from it all?); have a serious consultation on each one’s duties so that you are both happy and comfortable;  take full responsibility for your duties and go for it. There are a lot of things that a man can do to give his contribution so that the wedding day will also be his day: organise the music, hire the musicians, hire the rehearsal venue,…